My girlfriend wants us to marry by January next year, but my salary is 45,000” – Nigerian man seeks advice


According to him, his girlfriend wants to get married to him already, but he doesn’t think he’s financially buoyant to cater for a family, and he’s scared that he might lose her to a different man.

He said he earns N45,000 per month, and he doesn’t think it'll cater for her bride price alone, but she had already decided never to enter 2021 single.

He wrote to relationship expert, Joro Olomofin,

My GF and i have been dragging this marriage matter for 7 months now. She says I’m not serious and that i don’t want to marry her. I’ve been trying my best. I work for a delivery company and my salary is N45,000. My GF wants us to marry by January, 2021.

Currently I’m living with my brother because my office is close to his place. If I move out and marry, how do I start a family with 45K and get my own place. My GF doesn't have a job. She wants to start out make up business.

Should I marry her or break up because she said she will not enter 2021 single. i'm under such a lot pressure. i'm losing weight currently. I don’t even know how i will be able to pay her bride price if I agree

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